Winter Holiday Stories!


<<<.......Back to An Elle Fagan Artsite Home Page <<<.......Wordsite Home Page <<<.......Feel Welcome to find me! Contact Information
Happy Holiday!
Welcome to this Multi-Cultural Winter Holiday Treasure of Stories, images, music and videos!
The dates after each link show the year they were added to this page ~ at least one new one each year ~ it's become a Holiday Tradition, itself! May you enjoy many visits here throughout your holiday season!




True Story

Stocking Stuffers ~
The Strawberry Top

Wonderful 2011 update to this story - also true! - scroll down, please.

2001 Introduction: No matter how much we love the Winter Holidays with all the trimmings, The fun of stocking-stuffers is the refreshing escape from the "too-much-ness" of it. It renews the awareness that the true spirit of Christmas is a small and shining thing, a spinning thing that connects people!

And so the Strawberry Top story is one to share:

Our Decorator's Last-minute Holiday Sale was not to be missed! Even a young family with modest budget would be sure to find a dazzler, affordably priced. And one year, among the lovely things, I found there, a little wooden strawberry-shaped top to add to stocking stuffers.

Three inches high, in the shape of a strawberry, and with a simple green spinning stick, protruding at the place for the stem, it was painted bright red-pink, with green strawberry seeds dotted all over it, and it cost all of 75 cents.

With lots of things of the day, under the tree, I did not give it much thought. It was just a little thing to look classic and cute in the stocking for our "very-good-all-year-long" children, and happily wafted home with it.

But, on Christmas morning, after the thrill of the opening of gifts and glee and hugs all around, our children were fascinated by the mirthful little top. They loved their gifts, many of them had been high on their list of fervent hopes and wishes, but the Strawberry top was the surprise, in that it so often won center stage for their attention!

Each Christmas, thereafter, the top was among the first of Holiday trimmings to be brought out from storage and we all became gleeful at the thought of spinning that tiny Strawberry Top, as an effective ritual, signaling the start of holiday celebrations !

As the years passed, spinning that top became a special moment and a focus for the warmest and most loving and dearest holiday feelings!

A wonderful top!
An amazing top!
A remarkable spinning strawberry top!

When our spaniel pup put a tooth-mark in it, teething, we held our breath, at top-spinning time...would it spin? A wooden top depends on a delicate balance. The pup-chewing might have ruined it!

But it spun merrier than ever! And with our "otherwise-very-very-good" pup's toothmark in it, we loved it all the more! It was now unique - one-of-a-kind!

The marvelous top would spin and spin, and spin and spin - for more than a full minute - and more than that sometimes! My sci-tech husband was impressed! Each time, proclaiming the strong and merry life, in the very smallest things, that always touches us so much to heart, and especially, at the Winter Holidays! The focus we enjoyed watching it, seemed to make a magic moment of oneness.

Our children were in their early teens, the summer their Father died suddenly, and you can imagine, that first Christmas following brought some really sensitive moments - that first one without him, except for his spirit, with us, always !

But the ritual of Strawberry top earned its honors - with the children, so solemn , at my side ... hushed... The quick and lite and firm twirl to the now slightly-worn wooden stem...

"I guess we're ok", I said, as the top spun merrily and imperturbably, on the tabletop... bright, steady and strong - downright plucky! "The Strawberry Top still spins ! " And our hearts were truly lighter for it!

Even after they grew up and "flew up" to fine life on their own, they sought that top at the holidays! A barometer, of a sort... life changes, but love is eternal!

Our grownup daughter made an emerald green velvet pouch for it, with bright red velvet lining, and tiny clear crystal beads, like snowflakes on the outside, and a satin cord drawstring to close the pouch and protect it snugly. Our executive son always asked for it.

If I visited them at the holidays, the top, securely in its pouch, would come along, and make the key moment with "we-three" together and loving one another for another wonderful year! How nice, to have a thing, so easy to take along a special bit of magic!

Then in 2008, somewhere between my house and my daughter's the Strawberry top disappeared!
We searched high and low, near and far, "two times" with no luck!
We had to accept the fact that there would be no more Strawberry Top at Christmas.
"I am an artist", I thought - "I don't really work in wood very much but maybe a friend who does might help and we could make a new one and even put Apples' teethmarks back in it."
Then I looked online to buy one but there was none to be found.
Sadly, I let it go. No small thing the loss of a 3" top!



The Strawberry Top will be alive within us, always! And may each of us, and each of you, find and enjoy a Strawberry Top of your very own!

HOLIDAY 2011 - wonderful update!
I am good and practical and was resolved happily enough with it,
but this Christmas 2011 was a working holiday for me and, missing it all, I remembered,
and casually typed "Strawberry Top" in Google Search, and then clicked on the top hit...or near it.

The page burst forth with such an extravaganza of Strawberry tops I jumped and cannot remember when I was so delighted! Londji a toy company in Spain sells Strawberry tops, apple tops, carrot tops, pear tops , striped tops, Tops of the World and more!

Christmas suddenly rescued, I emailed them and sent this link to explain my jubilation! They are at Facebook, and I left the note there, too! Thinking about just how I might wish to purchase this wonderful thing!

But Londji was not done delighting me! Because, when I found their email response to mine it said that they liked the story so much they are sending me the GIFT of a new Strawberry top!

I only half believed them because people get expansive at the winter holidays but then put it away.

But today 1-21-2012 Saturday noontime! There it was in my post office box and two friends getting it, Tobias and his Mom Bonnie!

Straight home with it and ....Yessss!!!! It passed the test and spun for over a minute almost immediately!
I may take it to my safe deposit box after all this fuss, rather than risk loss a second time.
Such a small thing! Such a big happiness!


All I can say is "thank you so much" Londji and share it all here, to pass along the wonderful tale that is true and still spinning!

May your holidays merrily spin, and spin, also, and always.... Happy Holiday and most prosperous and healthy 2012 ! ..... Mirth on Earth ! .... Elle Fagan





~


My church added this "After Mass" prayer for the Christmas Season. With us at war, it is a good one.


Called To Peace

If there is to be Peace in the World,
There must be Peace in the Nations.

If there is to be Peace n the Nations,
There must be Peace in the Cities.

If there is to be Peace in the Cities,
There must be Peace among Neighbors.

If there is to be Peace among Neighbors,
There must be Peace in the Home.

If there is to be Peace in the Home,
There must be Peace in the Heart.

Let us be the Bearers of Peace!

Amen.


Nice, isn't it?

It is important to say that Peace is not referred to in the Perfectionist sense - that may never happen in this world!
But it gently reminds us of the value of even the smallest gesture of peace, at all levels.

It is also important to realize that we can rejoice because most of us DO achieve a certain amount of Peace within and without, or we'd seldom make it to Friday!
Let us praise one another and ourselves for the good we do each day, as we pray to do more.

But with us at war, we believe it helps to call , extra, for Peace, specially, and always at Christmas , with its beautiful, age-old message of

Peace on Earth, Good Will to All Mankind.

Elle









Legend - fable - fiction
The Robin's Christmas Story
from "A Christmas Stocking" by Louise Betts Egan


On that first Christmas, it is said, the night was wrapped in a bitter chill. The small fire in the stable was nearly out, and the Mother Mary worried that her baby would be cold, she turned to the animals about her and asked them for help.

"Could you blow on the embers," she asked the ox, "so the fire might continue to keep my son warm?"

But the ox lay sound asleep on the stable floor and did not hear her. Next, Mary asked the donkey horse and the sheep to breathe life back into the fire, but the sleeping animals did not hear Mary. She wondered what to do.

Suddenly, Mary heard a fluttering of little wings. Looking up, she saw a plain, brown-colored little robin fly into the stall. This robin had heard Mary calling to the animals and had come to help her himself, he went over to the dying fire and flapped his wings hard.

His wings were like little bellows, huffing and puffing air onto the embers, until they glowed bright red again. He continued to fan the fire, singing all the while, until the ashes began to kindle.

With his beak, the robin picked up some fresh, dry sticks and tossed them into the fire. As he did, a flame suddenly burst forth and burned the little bird's breast a bright red. But the robin simply continued to fan the fire until it crackled brightly and warmed the entire stable. The Baby Jesus slept happily.

Mary thanked the robin for all he had done. She looked tenderly at his red breast, burned by the flame, and said "From now on, let your red breast be a blessed reminder of your noble deed."

And to this day, the robin's red breast covers his humble heart.






~


George Winston "December" - "Carol of the Bells"

Click to play or stop the song





Artwork


Angels !

This is the start of a new array here, just in time for Christmas 2008

Items are available for sale, but some are just for Holiday Spirit ~ sketches, ideas, and more to come!
If Christmas is for children, I begin with one of my son, and end with one of my Daughter, with their wings on!
Do find me to talk about any of them, with your own comments and ideas. ~ elle


Son, Peter in his Wings ~ 5x7inches - watercolor - priceless!



Guardian Angel Egg - scan of 3-D eggcraft, she minded me while I did one for the White House - N.F.S.



Detail from "British Postcards" - "... I will send you an Angel, to guard your way, lest you dash your foot upon a stone."



"Semper Fideles - Iraq" 9x12inches, unframed - The Angel who guards those in danger for our sake!




Victorian Angel - Scan 3x5inches - Antique postcard image of the way we dream of Christmas!




British Postcards - 15x22inches, unframed - "Draft of 'Home for Christmas'




Elegant Nativity - 8x10inches unframed - Something a bit different but true!
We celebrate the Birth because He is the Newborn King,
and this one is say how special is this Nativity to us!




Children's Angel 1960 - 8x10 unframed -
one in the style of our own childhood.



Beslan Angel - Study -7x10inches, unframed - This one is just the start-sketch for a painting motivated by
the Beslan Massacre in Ossetia in 2004, in which 186 children died -
the Angel bears one of them, in sorrowful compassion.
I was taken away from it, before I could do the final draft, but remember them, still.



Central Park Angel - Study 5x7inches, unframed
You may recognize the famous and lovely Central Park, Angel of Waters- Bethesda Fountain



Angel Gloria Banner - 9x12inches unframed - the "Gloria!" will appear on her banner on Christmas Eve!
another one from childhood artworks done with the Sisters of Saint Joseph 1960



Visualization Angel - 9x12inches, unframed
I know who I am, but if I were an Angel, trying to stop a war,
maybe I would aim to be like this one, I thought one day, and sketched it.



Study for "Saint Michael at the Gates" 5x7inches, unframed -
one of a series that reviews the early chronicles of the Angels.



My Daughter in her Wings - graphic 6x8inches - part of the fun of being an artist, family-style.
We 'play a little piano',but she got very good at flute and clarinet and keeps a recorder now.




"And the Angel said unto them,... Fear not: for, behold, I bring you tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people!" -Luke 2:10
The Angel said , "To ALL people....."
and so the delight of the season is for you, as well!......elle

It's about... a child is born, a savior!
All is cold and dead around us, but a new life transforms the Winter into a Radiant Spring of the Human Soul!

I hope you enjoyed your visit to this collection of favorite Angel Images,and do return, because the collection is growing here !

Happy Holiday!



















True story

" Hopper "

It began at a special time and place!
A friend's apartment featured a veritable computer think-tank, in a cedarwood-panelled country home office, full of windows and window coverings, books and comfy chairs for the long hours online, in hilly upstate Connecticut.

We were working on our new websites, sometimes with two or more friends, when the house cat, Snowpuff, came to the door and meowed to come in. My friend, a mature type, was not normally all that expressive, so I jumped a bit, when I heard his burst of laughter, as he opened the door:

Snowpuff posed in the doorway with a companion, and gestured for permission for his new friend to come in, along with him.

The weather was bad. Spring in Connecticut is a delight, its alleuvial soil and cold winter investments yielding an extravaganza of flowers, but sometimes backslides, with an Easter snowfall, or damp and chilly rains. And Snowpuff's new friend was a baby squirrel.

There were no little ones in the house...not much fear of disease risk to a child, from befriending an animal from the wild.

The baby squirrel sat alongside the cat, politely following his host's lead, as any two pals might do, and so my friend laughed again, and invited them both in.

The two entered in fine spirit. And with Snowpuff hosting, the baby squirrel found the food and water bowls and litter box in under ten minutes, as we wondered at such an instant adaptation.

The guest squirrel was soon bringing laughter throughout the house on that cold, grey and rainy day. He interacted at once, and related to the three adults at the home that day, as well as to his feline host. He seemed to scamper everywhere, hopping from chairback to chairback as if to imitate his natural habitat....so we named him "Hopper". He was small and clean and light, so his antics were amusing and not destructive.

The weather did not improve and Hopper spent the night, with no issues. He brought warmth and some extra sweetness to the home, in the discouraging weather. We declared the event in good order and went back to work, all in a merry mode.

In subsequent days, Hopper would keep us happy company, and the place glowed a bit extra at the new life it protected.

One day,scampering about, Hopper found me at work at the computer and found his way into my pocket ,and began a habit of spending naptime there.....simply climbing in and going to sleep!

Again, our unexpected guest earned his keep!

However, baby squirrels grow quickly, and soon Hopper was chewing the wickerwork , and "going wild" , the scampering no more; his movements were now powerful, and our place was too tame.

Not long after, with "his host Snowpuff", on one of his forays out to the yard, he did not return.

The 'way of the wild', they'd say in olden days. But no matter... he'd done it right for us while he was among us, and I wondered if he would be forever a "special squirrel", from his experience with us... would he impact his natural world specially? But, again, we all had to let it go, and get back to work, through moments when, "conspicuous in its absence" was the life of Hopper with us. The glow remained.

A few weeks later, Hopper returned! He ran right indoors without hesitation, too shelter from another serious storm. And scampered easily right back out, when the weather cleared. Laughing again, we were relieved to see that, apparently Hopper's re-adjustment to the wild went just fine, and that he was one smart squirrel, to see to himself so cleverly.

We mention him occasionally, to this day.

I do not recommend "getting friendly" with undomesticated animals - it can be dangerous. Still, for us that time, it worked out well, and reminded us of the grand truths of life and its rights.
May we all respect all life in all forms, always, and celebrate the exchange of life among all life forms, for the good of it all, to our best ability.

Thank you , Hopper!












A Fun, Tech-friendly, Future-Carol to add to Classic Holiday Favorites !
Sing to the tune of "God Rest Ye, Merry Gentlemen!"

God Bless You, Merry Macintosh !

God Bless you, Merry Macintosh !
Let nothing you dismay!

And with your new IntelInside
We always win the day!

We team so well, and in top form,
for so much Work and Play!


Ohhhhhhhh, Mac, life is true Comfort and Joy!
- Comfort and joy
Ohhhhh, Mac, my life is true comfort and joy!



The night was dark, the moment dire,
When first you came to me!

At just my deepest hour of need
You filled my heart with Glee!

And soon a brand-new Dawn arose
So much to do and see!


Ohhhhhhhh, Mac, life is true Comfort and Joy!
Comfort and joy
Ohhhhh, Mac, my life is true comfort and joy!



We've worked and won without a care
Thru times that made men roast,

And new success again this year
and please ~ 'tis not a boast!

But modest humble song of praise
To all we raise this toast!


Ohhhhhhhh, Mac, may we know Comfort and Joy!
Comfort and joy
Ohhhhh, Mac, may life be true comfort and joy!











True Story

...and, as promised,

The Story of Oscar the Mouse...

Our homes and neighborhood were classic ~ we lived in two, during my childhood, and this one, in 1959, was part of my Mother's inheritance from her Father, and when things were lean during the big depression, one of the upstairs bedrooms was used for a hatchery for the baby chicks that would provide 'eggs for sale' for extra money, and food for the family of many children. When my Mother inherited it, later, in happy and prosperous times, she and my Father remodeled it completely, and he carved her name in a heart on one of the foundation supports ... and it was a showplace: with respectable property attached and gardens of mountain laurel, iris, forsythia, azalea, pussywillow, dill, chinese lanterns, roses, and trees of crabapple, macintosh apples, green pears, purple plums and huge maples with a swing always there, and evergreens to tantalize us with promise of Christmas, all year long!

This year, however, we had a problem: construction of new homes, begun that summer, just across the street, was going quietly and beautifully and our real estate value expected to improve from the neighborhood upgrade; if only the clearing of the field hadn't created many homeless field mice, the project would have been flawless.

We were happy and loving people, but our aging, faithful spaniel could not take a cat in the house just then, so, suddenly being "overrun by the little critters" created a lot of work, and as much laughter as frustration ... and it was a mighty challenge for a bit ... they were everywhere ! My Libra father did not even like a mousetrap, but here we were, forced to learn, at his instruction, how to properly bait one, and set it effectively and "disinfect like crazy" before and after success with it, since such animals can carry serious disease.

My Mother, aghast, recruiting my Sister and I to sweep and scrub, to clean after the odd-smelling leavings found everywhere ... including the drawer that held our eating utensils ! Seated at the table, the acoustic ceiling above us echoed a "tick-a-ta-tick-a-tuh-tick-tick-tick" , as the mice ran across ... stopping dinner and dinner conversation and discouraging appetite for continuation of the normally jolly time. After bedtime, the quiet in the house created more of the same, as our marauders scampered about the attic, and spaces between floors and walls, and basement.

The traps were set in earnest when the harmless nibbling cut the wire on one of the burners of our kitchen range, causing dangerous sparks, blown fuse and dysfunctioning range burner; and one night at dinner, we teamed up, again, as a survival group, when a glance at the scritchity noise overhead was met by the glance returned from one of the mice, whose industry had bored a hole right through the munchy acoustic tile ... we looked at one another with big eyes, unable to swallow our food, but always social, we remembered, "Well, how do you do ?!" , to this unexpected guest... More traps, and success, and one more demonstration from our Father: acoustic tile patch repair 101.

The New England summer had peaked, and many rodents hibernate, so, thanks to our responsible activism, and the season, we experienced relief ... "wow! no more mice!" ... and we did not realize how much bedlam the mice caused, till the relief and fatigue we shared afterward made it very clear ... my goodness! For a family-bonding experience, we would have been happy to "skip it", though the chase had often made us a laughing team, in this tv-sitcom misadventure.

Time passed, as did Summer, and Autumn, and the uproar in our home calmed and then shifted into Winter Holiday preparations. It had been some time since our ' Battle of River Street Field Mice '. But now, we were the "scurry-ers", with so much to do! Cooking, at least, was again safe and hygienic, without the mice, and decorations and shopping and choir and Christmas-caroling group and the sacred re-enactment of the birth of Jesus, and midnight mass, and Santa, restoring all the warm and generous feelings, perhaps, dented by the in-house assault of a few months before.

Relaxing with television after another busy Holiday Preparation day, my brother, wide-eyed, silently tugged at the sleeve next to him, and so on, till he had our attention ... he pointed to the very center of the livingroom carpet, just behind the TV area: Aaaaaa... mouse ! ... sitting up and politely alert, as though he had been invited to join our circle! He was theater, in his cheery innocence; solitary, self-contained and thoughtfully sharing the television program, he kept to his spot, as though it truly was his spot. We simply stared in disbelief, and determined not to lose our Christmas Spirit, warily welcomed him to the circle and enjoyed the Television Program with our unexpected and unlikely guest. Sometime during the show, he must have left, since he was gone when we next glanced in his direction. Off and on, but ongoing, throughout that holiday, the mouse reappeared ... and an imaginary, smiling, rapport developed among us, and our "Secret Sharer" of-another-sort, as he carefully took the same spot on the carpet, and seemed to fit right in. After the first few visits, my Brother named him "Oscar" - he was quite the "ham" - and after all the "mouse-in-the-house" troubles, this Christmas Mouse brought warmth and smiles and a secret among us, since most of our neighbors would not understand this "about-face" rapport with a rodent.

Our Father sent us to our Compton's Encyclopedia and the library helped: Like Cricket on the Hearth, Christmas Mouse stories are very old in literature, since it is normal for them to scurry into a warm spot from the strong, cold, weather. In days before good household disinfecting cleaners, they probably caused a health problems, and worse, and sometimes still can and do. I know we boiled the place, stem to stern, at home, till the mice stopped invading.

And yet, Oscar's visit was a "different story, altogether"! And my Father, being always the Libra philosopher, captured our eyes and attention with that look that says, ' there is an important life lesson to be learned here.'

"And now," he said, we have a "Christmas Mouse" story of our own. Silent, but, in happy warm agreement, my Mother smiled: don't touch him, but, ok, for now ... the extra disinfecting from him this winter will probably save us from colds, too !

Sometime thru that holiday, Oscar ended his visits, but more than forty years later, the memory is still a delight!
I hope you think so , too!

May we celebrate the special winter holiday renewal of the fundamental spirit of Hospitality throughout the Season, especially for unexpected and unusual Guests ! ~ elle

image credit: Animation Factory






Author's Note:



I like to share stories of "Life Before the Age of Aquarius", both to enrich the understanding of our grownup children, and to
praise our parents....
our life force did not come from nowhere...
it came from them...
from their achievements and their frustrations...
we are, to the best of our own limited ability, their justification...
and this is the time of year to bring it all up and feed ourselves through cold months and difficult moments...
on the love, the courage and the fun and the beauty of their gifts to us!
My own Mother was double-orphaned, but with a lucky genome, and property, and lots of siblings...
through the years, as different from one another they may have become,
they would bond to learn, to work, and make and share a loving home and be loving parents, because of the parents they barely knew...
I just want to praise them! After having parented, and reached midlife, I am so impressed with them, all they did and felt and shared and gifted to us...
All of them were greatly influenced by their spouses' family values, and so it is simple logic that I write here, since my Father's people were hometown Irish-American, loved work, arts, and family loyalties, and sometimes, America, most of all!
Thank you !


In the Fities and early sixties, The Magi were Mother, Father and God! All year long we celebrate our diversity in work and play, but at the Winter Holidays, we honor our ethnicity specially. So much of the beauty of my holiday memories shines from the special "lost art" feeling from the childhood ethnic observances. So I hope to share these stories well.

My children find it helps their understanding of their elders, and since it is so foreign to them, they seem to be truly interested! My generation did the corporate relocations, and so had little awareness of their roots except for visits with a few of them, and too few of them. Grown, they celebrate their previously-hidden soul - the many, many relatives astound and delight them, and I suspect that it helps them maintain balance in their futuristic psyches.

This page, then, is a bit more than a simple sharing of the luminous things at the Winter Holidays, but I hope my visitors enjoy at least that much !





~















The True Meaning of Christmas
~ and Some of its Symbols.


The True Meaning of Christmas?
Sometimes such questions are not really a question, but an opportunity.
A chance, once more, for all mankind to think about it for a minute, and share their insights -
to celebrate the diversity of understanding, and its source in a unity of Truth.

To Christians, for whom Christmas is named, The True Meaning of Christmas is very simply, the Celebration of the Birth of Christ -
"Christ's Mass" is the source of the word.

However, most of its symbols were there long before.
The Christian religion is said to be eclectic - that is, evolved from that which came before.
The goal was outreach to existing beliefs - using old symbols to help explain new concepts worked.
In time, legend, lore and thought enhanced the value of the symbols, and gave richer meaning.

That symbols relate to us and grow with us, reassures us that it is a good thing.

And that is why cultures and belief systems that seeming have little in common share similar symbols -
they grew from one another, sourcing in the same source of life and aiming there, as well.

Winter Holiday? It's about light and warmth and the life things in the months when nature challenges, with cold, dark, and minimum growing things to eat.

It's about life ! The Winter Holidays began as gatherings of folk to share life-saving observances. Things that were found to vastly improve the winter months.
And soon man realized that if these gatherings were made attractive, desirable and even fun, their lessons were more likely to be learned.

People would come to hear things they should hear; to learn the way of it all; to practice the ways and well! And so is sourced so much of ritual and tradition. Someone tried it and it worked!

One of the reasons elders howl as traditions change or are dropped is because the observaces were taken up by people because they serve a LIFE purpose - and in a very subtle way. If we drop old traditions we may forget the survival message in them - survival of the spirit, as well as of the body and culture.

The rest of the symbols we associate with the Winter Holidays are varied - I have listed a few of them here, and placed links to pages with more complete data, and you may enjoy finding more on your own - share them with me if you like!

The Christmas emphasis on Fellowship and Brotherhood and Community we show in many gatherings and special closeness in the family circle - this, too, is about giving a good vitamin pill to the part of us that experiences life as a power and motive and goal, all at once.

The weather may discourage it all, but with this little bit of encouragment, called 'holiday jollity' as they say in one old song, we win over it easily!

On the life level, it reminds us to group up and help one another should the bad day befall us. With so much fun in these observances, it tells us that the outcome of a bad day, confronted as a group, is quite likely to be very good, too. We relish it.

It's about LIFE!

We like symbols of things at this time of year, too! They speak in all languages, and without a word.

And end with this message, now and always!
"Peace On Earth ~ Goodwill Toward Man ! "




Here are a few notes concerning other Winter Holiday Symbols - if you email me with more, I will add them here:

  • SCROOGE ~ The Winter Holiday and Christmas messages are so important to our "basics" - physically, spiritually, historically and personally - that we seldom wonder at the message of the stories and film versions of the "Scrooge" tale.

    "Scrooge" takes the idea further: it is not merely important to participate in the grand ideas of the Winter Holidays - To disdain the message is a danger. And the book was written at another time in our history when it was feared that folk might forget and later, suffer bitter regret.

  • CHILDREN - Why the special emphasis on children at the Winter Holidays? Not all that long ago, the child mortality rate was pretty high. Some bore large families with the idea that half of them might not reach adulthood. Even in the most primitive times, to charm the children extra in the dark cold days was much better than huddling in a corner,in homes where heat was an option, waiting to fall ill, till Spring.

    Our children are our bid on immortality. We know we cannot live forever, but through our children, it feels better - life will go on.

    So, it is only logical that some extra to enthuse the children should be practiced at this time of year. Only logical that we should honor Saint Nicholas, or Santa Claus, so specially and his message of delighting the Children, as a reward for good behavior. Only logical that we wish to fill their minds and hearts with delight that often wins over even the illnesses of the cold winter days.

    And only logical, the emphasis on the "Holiday Bustle" and the importance of toys and other items to keep us busy and happy, especially in indoor activities, till Spring.

  • FIR TREE - the pure green color of the stately fir tree remains green all year round, depicting the everlasting hope of mankind. All the needles point heavenward,making it a symbol of man's thoughts turning toward heaven.

    We bring the fir tree and other fragrant evergreens indoors for fun, these days, and they still smell wonderful! But in olden times, housekeeping was not easy to do - and sanitation even worse. The boughs brought indoors were not an option, but the only thing for some folks to improve conditions indoors, with everthing shut up for the warmth till Spring.

  • STAR - the heavenly sign of promises long ago. God promised a Savior for the world, and the star was the sign of fulfillment of that promise. This is the most popular of the meanings, but there is so much more. The star is hope - light and direction in the darkness. Direction for the mariner, and land voyager alike, it symbolizes the fact that there are insights, directions, clues and inspiration in the darkest moments, through the toughest issues, and this message is so grand it impresses us, in ways that are out of reach to our consciousness and yet most profound. And of course, it's another simple symbol of light in the darker months.

  • CANDLE - for Christians the candle reminds us that Christ is the light of the world,
    and when we see this great light we are reminded of He who displaces the darkness.

    The neat thing about even the simplest interpretation of the candle is that is Man-Made.
    The candle says that light wins and we can make light and so we have power to do something about the dark, the cold, the difficult issues.
    Not only do we benefit from light, we can generate it!

  • WREATH - a circle - a line that never ends, but continues, round and round - symbolizes the eternal nature of love. Real love never ceases. Love is one continuous round of affection. Love is rich and enriched - so we warm to ones with greenery, and fruit and candies and sparkling ornamentation of every sort!
    Or maybe one so elegantly simple that it breathes the miracle of love as one simple statement. Delight!

  • SANTA - when we think of all the things we like, things we desire, just as we came from the womb, source in our parents, we feel instinctively that all good things come from an entity - SomeONE - and so the Santa symbol helps and improves feelings of benevolence and generosity in response, when we need something - a feeling that is echoed within us, and subtly helps even our inner workings.
    Believers see Santa as a God symbol - and a fine one he is!

  • HOLLY LEAF - is an old symbol of immortality. Green and bright red berries, when nothing else is doing much at all! To Christians, long ago it was said to represent the crown of thorns worn by our Savior. The red holly berries represent blood shed by Him. More about Holly

  • GIFTS - God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son.
    Jesus, the Ultimate Gift to Mankind!
    We also commemorate the Gifts from the Magi, the wise men, who bowed before the holy babe and presented Him with gold, frankincense, and myrrh.
    We should give gifts in the same spirit as the wise men."
    WE are profoundly reminded that all life is a gift. That each of us is, in turn a gift to life, and that in work and play, we exchange a bit of life as a gift to one another, and not just germs! - in our interactions we inspire one another and empower one another. Like a social gift in a box with ribbons or simply given, we take it home with us, and make good use of it, to enhance with beauty on a shelf or wall, or put to work in some way that helps, or we might save it or pass it on, as a gift, in turn, to another.

  • CANDY CANE - represents the shepherd's crook. The crook on the shepherd's staff helps bring back strayed sheep from the flock. We are part of the Human flock, of the Family of Man. The candy cane is the symbol that we are our brother's keeper. That in community we all help to maintain the group.

  • ANGEL - the angels heralded the glorious news of the Savior's birth. The angels sang 'Glory to God in the highest, on earth, peace and good will.'
    The Angel is a very powerful symbol. One we need in days so dark. Just as we learn all good things, in hope that we will be given the right insights to do our work, and our lives as we should, we still depend on the right insight to reach us at the moment it is needed. And this is the angel within us - the Angel who brings us the word and the inspiration, and the insight that wins the day. A symbol of all that is specially good in many spiritual ways.

  • BELL. The bell symbolizes guidance and return. As the lost sheep are found by the sound of a bell, the bell brings people to the fold. And the bell sings our the triumph of Christmas and all that it holds for us! It expresses, more than any one voice, the Exultation!

    As the ox and lamb, as the Angels, Shepherds and Magi, We bow down and worship Him, Jesus, our Lord, our God."



  • TV's EWTN website Advent page for Christmas lists more of the Christmas symbols explanations.












    Multi-cultural Winter Holiday Links
    I hope to learn, myself, more about the observances of those outside my education and experience, since we are all Citizens of the Universe. These links have been helping me, and I will develop them as I can and hope you will wish to gain appreciation for the many wonderful ways we mark the Winter Holidays!
    A Start here:

    Chanuka
    In my childhood memory, Catholic and Congregational and few other Protestant religions were part of the devotions and fun, and the Judaic was an exciting mystery, hinted at, but not taught. It was Post WW2 and we idolized Jewish people for their sufferings and valiant spirit, and studied the Holocaust, but had little knowledge of their devotions and traditions, other than our Bible study reported from ancient days. I think I saw a yarmulka one time in all my childhood. So I am happy to share these now, and learn more each year, with gratitude for the kindness of Jewish friends and internet study sites.

    Everything Jewish for those, like me, who know too little!

    The Story of Hanukka


    From Judaism 101: Chanukka, to some, is the holiday that is a contradiction in terms. In America, since it falls near the Christian Christmas Holiday, it has come to be celebrated in similar style. But the Feast of Chanukka commemorates the miracle surrounding the re-consecration of the Temple, after a successful rebellion against pressures to squelch Judaism and assimilate the Jewish religion and practices to conform the other dominant peoples and practices of the times: these were unscrupulous descendants of the tolerant Alexander the Great, who, unlike him, persecuted and massacred Jews and defiled the Temple.

    All things surrounding the Temple , its use and rituals, were very strict and could not be changed or omitted. Chanukka is called the "Feast of Lights" because the Jewish political and religious (led by the family of Juda Maccabees)that overthrew its anti-semitic oppressors (led by Antiochus), wished to celebrate and re-consecrate the Temple, which required a Sacred Festival of many days, with the Menorah burning, without interruption, night and day, throughout the festival celebration. Alas! The desecrations of the Temple had destroyed or defiled much of the sacred oil for burning the Menorah lights - only one day's supply of acceptable oil was left, and it would be eight days before new sacred oil could be properly and acceptably prepared, to keep the Menorah burning bright!

    Nevertheless, by some miracle, the one day's supply of oil burned steadily for eight days, till the new oil was ready! And so the special observance of the miracle associated with the re-consecration of the Temple was appointed, and called Chanukkah, a name that refers to the Menorah, or Candelabrum, the central icon of the feast.

    The Menorah contains the symbolic eight candles, one for each day the oil burned so miraculously, and ninth candle, the shamus or working candle, used to light the others, one for each day of the feast.

    The Dreidle game, so popular at Chanukkah is traditionally played at that feast because it is said that it was first played to fool the persecutors, disguising prayer and study groups for groups of idle gamers, spinning a top. It is fun and easy and not too boring, especially for modern and open-minded non-Jews, like me, hoping to take the opportunity at Hanukkah to learn something worthwhile and new. Play the Dreidel Game online !

    1.Chanuka.com
    An easy overall scan of History and Merchandise and rituals surrounding Chanuka, good for those who know nothing about it, and I wanted more.

    But visit it for the laser -cut art quality paper lace dreidel by artists Melanie and Harry Dankowicz, each one signed and numbered. A really beautiful thing, whatever your religious beliefs and observance.

    2. Chanuka for Children
    Fun childrens games of the season; links and learning and merchandise.

    My site fun page contains a dreidel crafting project to print and assemble. Happy Chanuka

    3. Ideas Shop - Made in Israel
    ...really beautiful top quality sales offerings of Dreidels and Menorahs

    4. Ready for more studious interest? Judaism 101 offers a great place to start. Reliable information in general terms, with links for further study.




    First of Judaic/multicultural stories at this page, from one at "Beliefnet.com"

    The Christmas Menorah

    A small town supports a Jewish neighbor when her family faces prejudice during Hanukkah.
    By Joan Wester Anderson

    During the wee hours of Sunday morning, December 8, 1996, after the third night of Hanukkah, someone took a baseball bat and broke the front window of a house on the street with a lighted menorah in the window, and the criminals reached through the shattered glass and smashed the menorah.

    The menorah is used to celebrate the eight-day Jewish Festival of Lights, also known as Hanukkah, which occurs around the same time as Christmas. As a nativity scene reminds Christians of their heritage and faith, so does a menorah for Jews.

    The woman who lived in the vandalized house was no stranger to prejudice. As a child, she had come with her mother, a Holocaust survivor, and her father, to the United States to escape persecution in the Soviet Union. Now, as she viewed the smashed menorah, the familiar fear returned.

    Lisa Keeling, a young mother who lived down the street, heard about the incident on returning from mass with her family. She was appalled. Newtown has about fifteen hundred families, representing many cultures and religions. Lisa had never heard of anyone being singled out because of faith or ethnicity. How would she feel if someone desecrated a crèche on her lawn she wondered. Unless everyone were free to practice religious beliefs, no one could be free. Lisa had an idea. She said to her husband, "I'd like to put a menorah in our front window so that family will know they are not going through this alone. If the vandals come back, they'll have to target us, too. What do you think?

    Lisa's husband didn't hesitate. "Go for it," he said.

    Lisa soon ran into another neighbor, Margie Alexander, who had been as horrified as Lisa when she heard the news and was also eager to act.

    Margie started driving from store to store, looking for menorahs, with Lisa calling all the likely sources and relaying the information to Margie on her car phone. Word got around, and several Christian neighbors dropped by, asking where to purchase a menorah. Margie and Lisa bought up all they could and distributed them just before sundown-time to light the next candle.

    Then Lisa took down the Christmas lights in one of her windows and put the menorah there, all by itself. "I didn't want there to be any doubt about the statement we were making," she recalls.

    That night, when the Jewish woman turned onto her street, she stopped in amazement. Greeting her was a sea of orange menorah lights, shining in silent solidarity from the windows of all eighteen Christian households on her block. Blinking back tears, she went home, replaced the broken bulbs in her own menorah and put it back in the window.

    Margie and Lisa are hanging menorahs again this Christmas. "it's become the most cherished part of my Christmas," Margie says, "and it's taught me a wonderful lesson: Just one little step in the right direction can make life better for everyone."





    and another, also from "Beliefnet.com" which, in turn found it at "Chicken Soup for the Soul" ~

    'It Should Once Again See Light'

    A menorah, hidden from the Nazis and miraculously unearthed after more than 50 years, finds its true home.
    By Blair P. Grubb, M.D.

    Several years ago, a physician from southern France contacted me. His granddaughter had taken ill with a disease that baffled the physicians there. He called after reading several of my articles on disorders of the autonomic nervous system. His granddaughter's symptoms seemed to match those I had described, and he asked me if I could help. I readily agreed, and for many months, I collaborated with the child's French physicians by telephone and by fax, directing their diagnostic testing. At last we came to a diagnosis, and I prescribed a course of therapy. During the next several weeks, the child made a seemingly miraculous recovery. Her grandparents expressed their heartfelt thanks and told me to let them know should I ever come to France.

    In the summer of 1996, I was invited to speak at a large international scientific meeting that was held in Nice, France. I sent word to the physician I had helped years before. Upon my arrival at the hotel, I received a message to contact him. I called him, and we arranged a night to meet for dinner.

    On the appointed day, we met and then drove north to his home in the beautiful southern French countryside. It was humbling to learn his home was older than the United States. During the drive he told me that his wife had metastatic breast cancer and was not well, but she insisted upon meeting me. When introduced to her, I saw that despite her severe illness, she was still a beautiful woman with a noble bearing.

    I was thereafter treated to one of the most wonderful meals I have ever eaten, complemented by the most exquisite of wines. After dinner, we sat in a seventeenth-century salon, sipping cognac and chatting. Our conversation must have seemed odd to the young man and woman who served us because it came out in a free-flowing mixture of English, French and Spanish. After a time the woman asked, "My husband tells me you are Jewish, no?"

    "Yes," I said, "I am a Jew."

    They asked me to tell them about Judaism, especially the holidays.

    I did my best to explain and was astounded by how little they knew of Judaism. She seemed to be particularly interested in Hanukkah.

    Once I had finished answering her questions, she suddenly looked me in the eye and said, "I have something I want to give to you." She disappeared and returned several moments later with a package wrapped in cloth. She sat, her tired eyes looking into mine, and she began to speak slowly.

    "When I was a little girl of eight years, during the Second World War, the authorities came to our village to round up all the Jews. My best friend at that time was a girl of my age named Jeanette. One morning when I came to play, I saw her family being forced at gunpoint into a truck. I ran home and told my mother what had happened and asked where Jeanette was going. 'Don't worry,' she said, 'Jeanette will be back soon.' I ran back to Jeanette's house only to find that she was gone and that the other villagers were looting her home of valuables, except for the Judaic items, which were thrown into the street.

    "As I approached, I saw an item from her house lying in the dirt. I picked it up and recognized it as an object that Jeanette and her family would light around Christmas time. In my little girl's mind I said, 'I will take this home and keep it for Jeanette until she comes back,' but she and her family never returned."

    She paused and took a slow sip of brandy. "Since that time I have kept it. I hid it from my parents and didn't tell a soul of its existence. Indeed, over the last fifty years the only person who knew of it was my husband. When I found out what really happened to the Jews, and how many of the people I knew had collaborated with the Nazis, I could not bear to look at it. Yet I kept it, hidden, waiting for something, although I wasn't sure what. Now I know what I was waiting for. It was you, a Jew, who helped cure our granddaughter, and it is to you I entrust this."

    Her trembling hands set the package on my lap. I slowly unwrapped the cloth from around it. Inside was a menorah, but one unlike any I had seen before. Made of solid brass, it had eight cups for holding oil and wicks and a ninth cup centered above the others. It had a ring attached to the top, and the woman mentioned that she remembered that Jeanette's family would hang it in the hallway of their home. It looked quite old to me; later, several people told me that it is probably at least one hundred years old. As I held it and thought about what it represented, I began to cry. All I could manage to say was a garbled "merci." As I left, her last words to me were "Il faudra voir la lumière encore une fois"--it should once again see light.

    I later learned that she died less than one month after our meeting. This Hanukkah, the menorah will once again see light. And as I and my family light it, we will say a special prayer in honor of those whose memories it represents. We will not let its lights go out again.

    Copyright © 2006 Beliefnet, Inc.

    ++++


    Diwali

    People of India, Hindu, and Jaine and others celebrate this Festival of lights. In fact the word means "Row of Lights". Depending on the era and the area of celebration, it marks the the last Harvest, provision for winter months, nirvana of heroes and celebrates Light in the darker months, like most of the Winter Holidays cross-culturally. Wikipedia's comprehensive description of Diwali is a very nice one, and includes images from olden days and modern times that celebrate the six-day feast.

    Legends of Diwali

    Diwali Stories

    Enjoying even some from these links will enlighten you as the lights brighten the dark, about this fitting Winter Holiday !










    Solstice


    As man has evolved through the millennia, so have the observances. At one time there was Man and Nature. And some insist it was better that way. The seasons rule our lives even today but in early days the the Seasons were both a sign from God, and the being of God.
    The Natural phenomenon WERE God.
    And so worshipped in love and fear.
  • From Wikipedia, some helpful and accurate Solstice information - the root of most winter holidays and still celebrated by some cultures!
    And here is a fine collection of information from Ireland where the Ancient mounds were constructed to illuminate at the Solstice and only then, revealing the messages carved so long ago! This from Knowth, and Michael Fox, Gaelic Knowth expert ~ 2010
    More coming.




    ++
    Kwanzaa

    Kwanzaa was established in 1966 in the midst of the Black Freedom Movement...in normal sociological response, as were most major holidays celebrated in the world today. To non -africans, it sounds a little bit like Thankgiving and Christmas combined, and has grown in delight and acceptance each year! Less than forty years later, most people know and respond to Happy Kwanzaa in America...overdue, and nice to see!

    1.The official Kwanzaa site
    listed here, is comprehensive and fun!

    2.Melanet.com
    another black experience site offers Kwanzaa data and links, as well.

    3. Kwanzaa on the Net
    also informative and fun...colorful homepage!




    A Classic Poem of God, Peace & Brotherhood for Christmas:

    The Little Black Boy
    by William Blake.


    My mother bore me in the southern wild,
    And I am black, but oh my soul is white!
    White as an angel is the English child,
    But I am black, as if bereaved of light.

    My mother taught me underneath a tree,
    And, sitting down before the heat of day,
    She took me on her lap and kissed me,
    And, pointed to the east, began to say:

    "Look on the rising sun: there God does live,
    And gives His light, and gives His heat away,
    And flowers and trees and beasts and men receive
    Comfort in morning, joy in the noonday.


    "And we are put on earth a little space,
    That we may learn to bear the beams of love
    And these black bodies and this sunburnt face
    Is but a cloud, and like a shady grove.

    "For when our souls have learn'd the heat to bear,
    The cloud will vanish, we shall hear His voice,
    Saying, 'Come out from the grove, my love and care
    And round my golden tent like lambs rejoice',"

    Thus did my mother say, and kissed me;
    And thus I say to little English boy.
    When I from black and he from white cloud free,
    And round the tent of God like lambs we joy

    I'll shade him from the heat till he can bear
    To lean in joy upon our Father's knee;
    And then I'll stand and stroke his silver hair,
    And be like him, and he will then love me.

    This poem is so famous, it's required reading in school, and there are oceans of literary comment about it. I am white, and the only inter-racial people I knew had money and property, and did not suffer, but there were sensitive places we respected, lovingly, and did not understand. This poem, taught school one day, gave me my first glimpse of understanding of the sensitivities of inter-racial issues...the realization that our daily courage cares for quite a bit, protecting the best soul in all of us - our hope of salvation.
    May we all continue to grow in good work and love, in every way, in the coming new year and always! ~ elle






    +++





  • MEMORIES OF A SPECIAL CHRISTMAS STAR



    Written in 2002, this little true story recalls earlier days:

    Christmas at our childhood home, in the 50's and 60's was luminous ! In good times or bad, always filled with love and energy, church and community, and special family experience. Mother's eleven siblings, Father's seven...family visits took all twelve days!

    Our parents were young, bright, beautiful and creative, and each year, we got busy, happily sharing everything that pleased, to make Christmas special.

    I especially loved outings to the family homestead, the "Little Whitehouse" for some of Grandpa's Running Pine for garlands, but the running pine was placed on the endangered list, that far back, and so we stopped the 'Currier & Ives'- type expeditions. We missed the event: such fun, to gather up the long vines, entwine them, till they created the evergreen fullness in a garland, and hang them over the mantles and anywhere else that felt grand to find some on Christmas morning!

    Fortunately fun begats fun! We were soon diverted with equal delight, to Developing the Art of The Purchase of the Perfect Christmas Tree and cultivating the mystified devotion to its decoration, care and feeding.

    Electric light shows on the outside of the home were an innovation, in those days, and thrilled us, as they do now! With the house outlined in lights and two lighted candlesticks of molded plastic, by the front door, Winter lost its power to freeze, entirely! And that is a thing to say: our New England winters could be discouraging, at times, with cold, ice, snow and storms.

    But not with our parents! Holiday-glowing, until we knew we should and could do something special - and so "The Star"!

    Commemorating The Star of Bethlehem, this would be a special star...if we could do it right, only the Original Star of Bethlehem could be better!

    And so began the talk and planning sessions at the kitchen table and sketches and plans for the project, so that our Star might dazzle and yet be strong enough to endure, outdoors, through wind and cold.

    With all of us contributing, and encouraged to contribute, our ideas and wishes and thoughts, planning was soon followed by some shopping for supplies, and then some serious evenings' work.

    The entire family, and a very special "Angel", a devoted friend of many gifts, gathered in the kitchen to assist and kibitz, as the work began...singing the holiday songs in three languages throughout! I think the only thing I hated from those days, was the cold glare from that flourescent kitchen ceiling fixture, but dark comes early in the winter, and I remember tuning out the insult of such light, and my Father giving me "the look" that said, sympathetically : "I know it's awful, but they'll get there with it, and we can rise above it, for this, easily!" He was, of course, right! And so, "to it"!

    In Connecticut's cold and windy winters, this Star would do just fine with a sturdy wood backbone, so Angel and our Father went to work at that! We might help measure and mark the wood, with the funny, flat pencil.

    Then a faceted, three-dimensional skeleton for the contours of the star, created with Wooden lath and dowelling, and supports for endurance at every angle, and weak space.

    Then Mother entered, and we three children, with boxes of aluminum foil, unrolling and crimping sheets of the shiny stuff, to create "billions and billions" of facets in them, when partly smoothed out. Such fun to wiggle the faceted sheets, this way and that, and pick up their sparkly fun! There were not yet many things that did so. We were in no hurry to be done!

    Such fun to mash the foil into balls, but not too hard, now! A perfect task for children our age!

    The crimped, smoothed foil was then stapled to the frame to fill out the contours created by the skeleton.

    We jumped back and forth, between hushed devotion to the task, and just plain old-fashioned glee! Our star was already looking amazing!

    Finally, the bulbless strings of lights were fashioned along each edge, height, width and depth of each point, and, varying the colors each year, a four-inch, heavy-duty outdoor bulb was fastened in each socket. The mood getting serious now....

    Then, with us keeping watch for safety and steady footing, Angel and our Father climbed to the porch roof, via the upstairs hall window, fastening our Star to the top front of our home, with "guy wires" of a sort, so that even the strongest winds would not disturb it.

    Then back indoors through the window, our Father making sure we gathered around him attentively. He would demonstrate the safe and strong method for creating the electrical connections. Our parents had a way of making things seem effortless in their youth, but it was a lot of work, and the concepts brave for the times. It would be our job to light the star each sundown and extinguish it in the morning, so the extra instruction with the wiring was important.


    But now

    the moment...

    big eyes!

    no noise!

    no breathing!

    ... the 'power-on' , as the rest of us flew to the front yard ....

    ...3,2,1.....

    TaaaaDaaaa!!!!!!!

    Fiat Lux!!!!!

    Let there be Light!!!!



    Completed, the star was more than three feet high, not including its supports, and thirty feet up on our rooftop and lit, it dazzled the entire neighborhood!

    Word spread, even then, about neat lightshows, and People came from miles around to see the spectacle, and, of course we were gleeful over both the star and the excitement it created at Wintertime!



    A real Christmas Star!



    And each year, for many years after, the Star was brought out from careful storage, the foil refreshed as needed, variations in the color scheme of the lightbulbs worked out and, one year, we even gave it the amazing new snowspray stuff!

    We loved it, and never lost interest in it, even when we were no longer "little ones" and mostly into things that were "cool"...

    We loved it so much none of us will remember how and when it disappeared from our lives!

    And remembering our Very Special Christmas Star still creates the glow that comes from within, and the desire to share its message of warmth and light in cold, dark places, just as far and as well as it will go!



    Author's note: year's later, I wondered if the Foil covered Star was precognitive... a precursor.....soon after the Star disappeared, my Father's hands were fashioning the gold foil that wrapped the Lunar Landing Module...crinkled foil on a much fancier star!...neat coincidence, no?


    Happy Holiday! Whoever you are, wherever you are, you surely do have a special light to share, as well...especially when you think otherwise! May it glow for you, forever!




    If you enjoyed the story, please tell me! Elle Fagan


    esfagan@ellefagan.com






  • The Amazing Suppressed Fireplace Heat Exchanger

    This idea is popular again, with the booming of "Green" in Housing and Energy - Evergreen the memory!


    Back in my home state, Connecticut, Christmas is from Currier & Ives, warm or icy, it is almost like a song to a wanderer home again. Even the cold that comes with the White Christmases is no discouragement, but invigorating to the spirit - natives to the colder climate develop an internal generator, so as not to miss the best of it all, but thrive in it! Test: a bare foot in the snow outside the door - if the reaction is delicious, you pass with flying colors!

    Winter was different later. In the seventies, in North Carolina, our work challenging, our schedules hectic, our children a lively delight, and our home the center of it all, the temperatures chilled by Thanksgiving, and though Greenville was too near the plateau and seashore to bring showy-snowy White Christmases, there were a few dustings each year and in our fourteen years there, one really significant snow storm that closed the town up , in effect, for days, before things ran normally. Having little need for large banks of snow-clearing equipment, the National Guard helped.

    Our men home from work, having fun dressing in old Army clothes, and being "macho" as they hiked to the store for provisions, and laid planks in the neighborhood for safe passage, then enjoyed unplanned guy-fun with games and tv and good talk. Our Brittany Spaniel gloried in it, prancing and dancing and throwing the snow about with her paws and rolling in it as though it was a bed of fine perfumes and unguents! Our Children - well, needless to say, I was glad the laundry / mudroom were conveniently located - the frequent forays outdoors for snowmen and snow angels and snowball fights meant , for Mom, the need to change their things six times a day and get them dry again.

    And I am glad I liked making the cocoa with peppermint sticks for stirring - because it was a happy and handy warmer-uppper , as we all celebrated the unusual snowfall!

    And evenings, the Winter Chill became the penultimate "left-handed blessing", with a merry fireplace lit in the den, and the modest pair of loveseats flanking it; with afghans and pillows, pup and kitten and hot cocoa and marshmallows, and the books. Husband, children and myself - All four of us would pass around the favorite stories of the time, taking turns reading to the others...one winter was filled entirely with reading the Tolkien Trilogy "Lord of the Rings", and chatting merrily about how great a film it would make, if a "quality" job was done, that is. Anything less would be worse than nothing. The children so happy with their ability to "hold their own" with reading skills, and their parents in complete agreement.

    The Fireplace was a favorite spot for us all, all through the cool months. Then, Each Spring, we'd push the love-seats back and into a cooler, more open arrangement, and call "The Sweeps": our community was blessed with a chimney-cleaning service that came in and did the famous ChimneySweep show for us all, and so certainly worth the fee, and when done, all of us with happy lite hearts and a spotless hearth. Then, we'd store the grate and screen and pop live ferns in the empty hearth opening. Our Brittany, Apples, loved to climb in there for the coolest summer nap on the bricks, and the children loved her entertaining way in that. Photos, of course available on request.

    There wazzzzz that thought nagging at us, even 30 years ago, about the wasteful wood use, but not much in North Carolina, where it was raised commercially, plentiful and inexpensive. The guilt was not about the wood, but about all the heat loss. A home heating system compensates for loss of heat due to the vacuum-action of the chimney, and runs overtime, and the energy bill reflected it. We talked about it and poked about, on the issue. Some years, we used our fireplace less often than we wished because of the energy factor: with all connecting doors to the Den closed, since the lovely fireplace certainly did draw the room heat right up the chimney. Guilt, guilt, guilt... and then the rescue, from technology.

    The Amazing Fireplace Heat Exchanger changed all that. Finally, the beauty, warmth and quality family time, and finally guilt-free.
    The traditional wood logs were placed on an innovative grate - made of hollow metal tubes, it sat in the hearth like any ordinary grate. Simplicity of design genius, the front of the tubes fed a fan that blew the warm air into the room, NOT up the chimney. The wood burned normally, heating the metal tube grate and creating the same lovely fire. With our existing glass and brass screen, fully closed, there was zero heat loss, without sacrificing the fine Hearth experience in any way.

    Of course, the smaller heating bill was a treat instantly, and the unit paid for itself very soon. We were able to enjoy the fireplace all we wished.....guilt-free! The family experience at the fireplace finally "made the grade", because the fireplace energy waste was no longer a nagging issue. Halcyon days!

    I live in an apartment now, but am house/home-office shopping and as our chilly days in upstate Connecticut arrive, the memory of the Amazing Fireplace Heat Exchanger has found me ... if I am home-buying, I will want one...both a fireplace for the love and charm and beauty, and its hero, the Amazing Fireplace Heat Exchanger. Our children are marrying and talking of granchildren, and how nice to share it again with them, and their own children. I was widowed young, and well over it, and so my good children cherish the happy memories doubly for the treasure they represent, solemly at first but carefree, in time. Contemplating this option is happiness in own right, and grateful to share it.

    They say most families in our divergent cultures, still seem to create a cherish some time and place memory of the sort. Playing a certain game, or sport; making a special dish in the kitchen, shopping at a certain store.

    My wish for you is that, however you enjoy it, please do !

    ~~~elle


    technote: I always wonder why everyone does not use a fireplace heat exchanger...it is genius: energy-saving, money-saving, brilliant and beautiful and safe .But like lots of genius innovations, it seems to sail along, sweetly, but not really reign supreme. The new gas log and synthetic versions are lovely as the traditional and warming and GREEN-concious, too - unless you're a purist, as many are, when it comes to the Art and Experience of the Fireplace.



    ~~~~

    There really is a Killarney And its message still rings true!
    I hope to get there one day, But, for now, the song'll do!
    Special thanks to Bing Crosby, whose American
    recording of the song, above, was "Top40" in the '40's!
    Photo above is of the Killarney Park Hotel
    in "actual" Killarney, near Dublin and its airport.
    find it online and visit...lovely! I do hope to get there!

    And if things Irish charm you, you may enjoy Irish & Other Celt at this site.

    Christmas in Killarney is an Irish Christmas song
    written by John Redmond, James Cavanaugh and
    Frank Weldon, copyright 1950.
    This song has been performed by many artists,
    most notably Bing Crosby on his album "White Christmas".

    Song: "Christmas in Killarney" sung by Bing Crosby, at YouTube !

    Christmas In Killarney


    The holly green!
    The ivy green!
    The prettiest picture you've ever seen!
    It's Christmas in Killarney,
    With all o' the folk from home!

    It's nice, ya' know,
    To kiss yer' beau
    While cuddlin' under the mistletoe!
    And Santa Claus
    You know, of course
    Is one o' the boys from home!

    The door is always open!
    The neighbors pay a call!
    And Father John, before he's gone,
    Will bless the house 'n' all!

    How grand it feels!
    To kick yer' heels,
    'N' dance to the tune of the Jigs 'n' Reels !
    I'm tellin' you no blarney!
    The like' you've nivver known!
    It's Christmas in Killarney!
    With all o' the folk from home!







    ~~~~~~~
    Origin of 'Jingle Bells' Song Is Debated + Songwriter's Hall of Fame Link
    By RUSS BYNUM, Associated Press Writer
    SAVANNAH, Ga.
    - Dashing in the sun, through oaks and Spanish moss. Sleigh riding's no fun, when there's no snow to cross. Could "Jingle Bells" really be a song of the South? It's not hard to see why balmy Savannah has a tough time selling the Christmas carol as a native creation. Or why the claim makes folks in Medford, Mass. _ hometown of the song's composer _ cry humbug.

    This much is known: James Pierpont was the organist at Savannah's Unitarian Universalist Church in 1857 when he copyrighted the song "One Horse Open Sleigh," a title later changed to "Jingle Bells." One of the most popular American Christmas songs, "Jingle Bells" made Pierpont a pre-Civil War one-hit wonder. But did he write it here as a piece of homesick, holiday nostalgia? Or did he compose it years before in Medford, not seeing the tune as a moneymaker until he drifted south? "No one really knows where he was when he wrote it _ that's the rub," said Constance Turner, Pierpont's great-granddaughter in Coronado, Calif. "Evidently, James was quite the free-spirit and he published some bad songs and one, at least, we know of that's a very good song."

    Medford, just outside Boston, claimed the carol without challenge until 1969, when Milton Rahn, a Savannah Unitarian, announced he had linked the song's composer to Georgia. Rahn was listening to his daughter play "Jingle Bells" on the piano when he glanced at the sheet music and noticed the composer's name: J. Pierpont. He had earlier found letters John Pierpont Jr., the church's pastor from 1852 to 1858, had written home to Medford saying his brother, James, had come to Savannah as an organist and music teacher. Further research found the composer had married in Savannah in 1857 weeks before he copyrighted "Jingle Bells." "I saw this as something to help us get publicity for the church," Rahn said.

    Pierpont, who lived from 1822 to 1893, was said to be a wanderer who ran away to sea at 14 and later went to California during the Gold Rush. During the Civil War, he joined a Confederate cavalry regiment in Savannah, bucking his family's staunch abolitionist views. Though Pierpont came from an aristocratic family _ his nephew was the financier John Pierpont (J.P.) Morgan _ he never made much money himself. His other songs included several touting the Confederate cause, with titles such as "We Conquer Or Die" and "Strike For The South." But none struck a chord like "Jingle Bells."

    After Savannah erected a "Jingle Bells" marker across from the church in 1985, then-Mayor John Rousakis declared the tune a Savannah song. To folks in Medford, that made Rousakis and Rahn a pair of grinches out to steal their Christmas history. A series of not-so-jolly exchanges followed. "In the words of Shakespeare, it is our intention to keep our `honor from corruption,'" Medford Mayor Michael McGlynn wrote in a 1989 letter to Rousakis. "We unequivocally state that `Jingle Bells' was composed ... in the Town of Medford during the year 1850!" Rousakis fired back with an equally strong, unyielding letter. "James L. Pierpont is still here with us," Rousakis wrote, noting the composer's Savannah burial. "I am sure (Pierpont) will join us in spirit when we finally and formally proclaim Savannah, Georgia, as the birthplace of `Jingle Bells.'"

    According to Medford, Pierpont was inspired by the winter sleigh races down snow-filled Salem Street in Medford and wrote the song at the Simpson Tavern, a boarding house with the only piano in town. Ace Collins, author of the 2001 book "Stories Behind the Best-Loved Songs of Christmas," says he found more proof of Medford being the rightful birthplace while researching his chapter on "Jingle Bells." Collins said he found a New England newspaper from the early 1840s that mentioned "One Horse Open Sleigh" debuting in Medford at a Thanksgiving church service. The song proved so popular, he said, Pierpont gave a repeat performance at Christmas. When it comes to which city deserves bragging rights, Collins gets diplomatic. Pierpont may have written his song in Medford, he says, but Savannah made him realize its universal appeal. "Savannah was the key," Collins said. "If it can play in Savannah, where snow was a novelty, it can play anywhere."

    On the Net:
  • Unitarian Universalist Church of Savannah Georgia probable site of debut of "Jingle Bells"
  • Medford Massachusetts birthplace of author of "Jingle Bells"
  • Songwriters Hall of Fame ~ have fun finding the story behind other favorite songs, Holiday and "otherwise".
    Copyright 2003 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.



  • ~~~~~
    "The Night Before Christmas
    Please enjoy the Classic Fun! You may also enjoy clicking here, to learn about its author, Clement Clark Moore.
    If you find the story has begun without you...click "Stop" and take the little book to the startpage, using the "Previous" or "Next" buttons ! If the storybook disappears, the page has "timed-out".Just Press Refresh/Reload to continue! ... :-)

    Description:
    Number of Pictures:  of